For many people, their phone is rarely used as a “phone” and now plays the role of a messaging or information device.
Texts, WhatsApps, voice notes, social media, and instant messaging have all become the norm, with actual one-to-one phone calls becoming less common.
However, there are times that a message simply can’t take the place of a conversation. Read on to find out seven reasons it could be good to talk.
A new era of communications is here, but sometimes the old ways are still the best
A BBC article from 2012 reported how the shift from phone calls to messaging had tipped the balance in favour of the latter. It cited the fact that 58% of people communicated via text daily in 2011 and only 47% made a daily phone call, in a shift driven by young people aged 16 – 24.
Since then, there has been a huge uptick in other types of messaging, with new platforms, social media, and voice notes all now part of our huge swathe of communications options.
While there’s something to be said for this type of instant messaging, there are still reasons that actually making an old-school phone call could be a preferential option.
1. It can feel more meaningful
A message is convenient but can often be transactional, with a simple question and answer format.
“Are you free on Friday?” “Yes, see you then.”
It does the job, but it isn’t a meaningful replacement for a conversation. A phone call allows you to enjoy an unplanned discussion, allowing the conversation to flow naturally in its own direction. You can hear each other’s voices, tone, laughter and responses, which is a much more mutually enjoyable experience.
2. It can show you care
Taking the time to call someone, rather than tapping out a quick message, can make them feel much more nurtured, especially if they are elderly or live alone and don’t have a lot of in-person social interaction.
Hearing someone’s voice can also give you a better idea of how they’re doing. “I’m fine” on a message is difficult to interpret as anything other, but “I’m fine” delivered in an exhausted tone, or a wobbly voice, can help you understand how they’re feeling.
3. It can strengthen relationships
Regular calls with friends and family can help to strengthen and maintain relationships. Busy lives and long-distance living can make it very tempting to use the one-way options, but you could still schedule a quick call on a weekly or monthly basis. Hearing each other’s voices can help you feel closer.
4. You can walk and talk
If you have headphones, you can pop them in and take a walk at the same time you’re chatting. It’s a great way to get some fresh air, do some exercise, and catch up with your friends and family at the same time.
5. A conversation can be more spontaneous
Messaging can be very considered and curated. You can edit and delete and retype until you’re happy you’ve created the perfect communication.
A phone conversation is much less controlled, allowing you to ask questions as they naturally arise, rather than contemplating and ruminating over a message.
6. Difficult conversations can be easier
An apology can feel much more heartfelt if you take the time to make a phone call, rather than sending a quick message. In the same way, talking about sensitive personal matters, resolving a disagreement, or discussing worries with someone over the phone is a much clearer and positive way of communicating.
7. You’re more likely to give it your full attention
When you’re messaging, you’re likely to be doing something else at the same time, such as watching television, cooking, or working. But when you’re on the phone, you generally stop what you’re doing and give your full attention to the person at the other end.
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This article is for general information only and does not constitute advice. The information is aimed at individuals only.
All information is correct at the time of writing and is subject to change in the future.